Understanding Retirement Fears and Finding Purpose Beyond
If you are a teenager, one of your greatest worries might be the ‘Fear of missing out’ (FOMO). Interestingly, as people transition into retirement, their anxieties start to revolve around quite the opposite concerns.
Financial Habits in Retirement
A recent conversation with a financial advisor highlighted a surprising trend: many retirees struggle to spend their savings. Instead, they tend to hoard their money, only for it to eventually be claimed by the taxpayer when they pass away.
The ‘Never Enough’ Phenomenon
One major issue is the persistent belief that whatever wealth has been accumulated during one’s life, it is never quite enough. For example, a coaching conversation with a wealthy and successful banker revealed that even after securing enough funds for his children to never have to work again, he began then to worry about his grandchildren’s education and future. The cycle of concern seems never-ending, like a hamster wheel that never stops.
Long-Term Care and Erosion of Wealth
People nearing retirement often express worries about having sufficient funds to cover care home fees in the future. The truth is though that, with an ageing population, it is almost inevitable that whatever savings remain will be taken by the State to fund care provision during the later years of life. No matter how diligently people try to save money for their children, much of it may be diminished by the time their life comes to an end.
Finding Joy and Purpose in Retirement
The question then arises: what can we do in retirement to find true joy, meaning, and purpose? The wise thing might be to consider these questions a long time before we reach that point of retirement.
By thoughtful planning, it is possible to look forward to and enjoy some of the best years of one’s life. At eighty years old, I am now planning for the next twenty years, designing new ways of living a fulfilling life with an ever-changing horizon. The focus for me is not on worrying about life’s end, but rather on making the most of the time left. The aspiration perhaps is to avoid suffering from FOMO in one’s final moments.
Reflections on Life’s End
Shortly before my father’s death at ninety-eight years old, I asked whether he was afraid of dying. My father replied, ‘Not really John. You see, I reckon I have had a pretty good innings. I will be happy when my time is up.’ He had truly enjoyed a great ‘innings’, a sentiment familiar to cricketers. Achieving such contentment does not happen by chance though; it requires thoughtful planning and preparation in a process that covers all aspects of your future life.
Making the Best of Remaining Time
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